A year of struggle as an Afghan family builds a new life in California

By Brittany Hosea-Small and Kristina Cooke

SACRAMENTO, Calif. – Najib Mohammadi had excessive hopes for his life in the USA when he, his pregnant spouse Susan and two young children left Afghanistan in July 2021.

However for a lot of the previous 12 months, the household has lived in a cockroach-infested, one-bedroom condominium in Sacramento unable to seek out inexpensive housing in California’s capital. He has struggled to seek out work.

The previous interpreter for the U.S. navy arrived final 12 months beneath the Particular Immigrant Visa (SIV) program, simply two weeks earlier than tens of hundreds of his fellow Afghans had been evacuated when Kabul fell to the Taliban. Mohammadi, 37, feels fortunate he's protected and is aware of he's higher off than others: he speaks English and the SIV program offers his household a pathway to citizenship. However “it’s a extremely onerous life,” he mentioned.

Earlier this 12 months, an Afghan evacuee residing in Pennsylvania whom Mohammadi had educated within the Afghan military referred to as and requested him if life was simpler in Sacramento. Mohammadi instructed him: Don’t come, there’s no housing.

Reuters has adopted the Mohammadi household for his or her first 12 months in the USA, witnessing their ups and downs as they rebuilt their lives. (Photograph essay: https://reut.rs/3whnabl)

‘EDUCATION IS LIKEOXYGEN

In October, Mohammadi discovered a job logging the restore wants of broken electronics – the pay was common and he thought he was lastly on the trail to stability.

However the firm wouldn’t enable him to have a cellphone on him whereas he labored, and he frightened about his pregnant spouse, Susan, house alone with their two kids, Yasar, 1, and Zahra, 2 on the time. Susan instructed him she was frightened too. At some point in December, he arrived house to seek out her handed out on the ground with the youngsters taking part in round her, he mentioned. She hadn’t been in a position to attain him when she began feeling unwell.

He resigned that day.

This spring, Mohammadi enrolled in grownup schooling courses to get his excessive school-equivalency diploma. Susan, as soon as she learns English, desires to check medication, which might not have been doable in Taliban-ruled Afghanistan. “Training is like oxygen, like meals. It’s mandatory for women and men,” Mohammadi mentioned.

They've mentioned enrolling Zahra in preschool, however Susan is frightened her English will not be but robust sufficient to speak her must lecturers. She has picked up some English from cartoons, and he or she has began responding with “OK!” and two thumbs up when her mother and father converse to her in Dari, one of many official languages of Afghanistan.

As soon as his monetary scenario is extra steady, Mohammadi additionally hopes to have the ability to afford remedy to cope with trauma from his military days. He remembers the cries of ladies and kids when he would enter homes on the lookout for insurgents and is relieved his children may have completely different lives.

As he walked by means of a Sacramento park along with his household this spring, he gestured on the quiet inexperienced garden, noting how peaceable it was.

“I used to be born in battle, and lived battle,” he mentioned. “The most important blessing in life is safety.”

BABY ‘100% AMERICAN

As Susan’s being pregnant progressed, Mohammadi spent hours making an attempt to navigate U.S. hospital paperwork, to make sure that his spouse would have a feminine physician when she gave beginning, a non secular and cultural non-negotiable for them. “The system could be very difficult. I’m not used to it, and it nearly makes me really feel dizzy generally,” he mentioned on the time.

However after Susan’s water broke in Could, on the day of her scheduled induction, they arrived on the hospital and discovered her physician was male. With Susan in labor, they drove half-hour to a different hospital with a feminine physician on obligation.

“I instructed Najib I can't enable my physician to be a person even when I die,” she mentioned. “Najib mentioned that the merciful God will clear up our drawback. I received power from his phrases.”

Their child, Yusuf, was born wholesome and “100% American.” Susan jokingly calls the newborn “Mr. President.”

A number of weeks after Susan gave beginning, Mohammadi helped one other household with a new child navigate hospital and advantages paperwork. In July, Mohammadi took them procuring and shared his groceries with them.

All year long he was upset and pissed off as he obtained pleading calls from former Afghan colleagues who labored for U.S. forces, he mentioned, asking him to inform U.S. officers they had been nonetheless in Afghanistan and stress the necessity to get them out. Mohammadi didn’t know clarify that there was nothing he might do.

A few of his former colleagues in Afghanistan now say they need they'd not put their lives in danger for U.S. forces, he mentioned.

He's additionally disillusioned, he mentioned, that he has not obtained extra assist in the USA, particularly with housing. Mohammadi has been looking for another condominium, however most landlords required extra references and earnings statements than he is ready to present.

Nonprofits that assist refugees resettle had been overwhelmed by the spike in Afghan arrivals.

“The evacuation made it considerably tougher to seek out housing – each short-term and everlasting – within the Sacramento space,” mentioned Kevin Buffalino, communications director for the Sacramento Meals Financial institution and Household Providers, which offered resettlement providers to Mohammadi. “The inflow of individuals meant that just about every thing was at capability.”

In July, Mohammadi had an emergency appendectomy, which made the precariousness of his scenario hit house much more.

“After my surgical procedure I believed, if I can’t work what ought to I do about my future, about my children’ future?” he mentioned. “I actually extraordinarily felt like I used to be homeless right here… I don’t have a steady scenario.”

“Each second,” he mentioned, “I face an issue.”

The newest drawback: a letter informing the household that their lease would quickly improve by 10%.

Final month, Mohammadi had an interview through Zoom for a job as a part-time interpreter. He perched on the sting of the mattress of their small sparsely furnished bed room, as Susan wrangled Zahra, who was having a tantrum, Yasar and a crying child Yusuf subsequent door.

He's ready to listen to again.

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