My mother-in-law won’t stop fat shaming my 19 month old son – I’m absolutely fuming, he’s nowhere near being fat

A MUM has taken to Mumsnet to complain after her mother-in-law made repeated fats shaming feedback about her 19 month previous son.

The lady posted on the web site's Am I Being Unreasonable? discussion board as she defined: "Two weeks in a row now my MIL has instructed my 19 month previous son that he’ll get fats if he retains consuming.

The woman has complained after her mother-in-law fat shamed her 19 month old son
The lady has complained after her mother-in-law fats shamed her 19 month previous sonCredit score: Getty

"He’s not fats, nowhere close to it, however even when he was I don’t suppose that she needs to be making such feedback to somebody at such a younger age."

She added that she "desires to ask" her mother-in-law to cease however is not "certain how effectively it should go down or if I’m simply being unreasonable".

Within the feedback part, the vast majority of individuals agreed that the mother-in-law was being unreasonable making such feedback.

"My mum used to do issues like this round my dd (pricey daughter)," one particular person wrote.

"I nipped it within the bud and instructed her politely however firmly that feedback like that have been pointless and to please cease."

One other particular person added: "It is by no means too early to contemplate the impact of 1's phrases on a growing particular person."

A 3rd wrote: "It is a ridiculous factor to say that has the potential to make a baby completely anxious about consuming.

"Subsequent time she says it, I would say 'do you suppose he ought to cease consuming altogether mil?' Hopefully that can shock her into shutting up."

And another person agreed: "You're completely entitled to ask her to cease saying that.

"She may say she's solely joking however in some unspecified time in the future he'll perceive and it isn't a joking matter."

The majority of commenters agreed that such remarks would give the child food issues
Nearly all of commenters agreed that such remarks would give the kid meals pointsCredit score: Alamy

"You aren't unreasonable. Nip it within the bud now," one other particular person wrote, concluding the one-sided debate.

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